Better Business, Better Life – Issue 134

 

I wanted the title to say “don’t be a pussy!” but apparently that didn’t pass the spam test & I would have ended up in your junk with all the other girly messages. 😁

But that is my message for today. A little cheeky, but stick with me.

If you’re a Visionary, it’s time for a little tough love.

You see, not too long ago, I brought my adorable new kitten into the office for three weeks while she settled into our family.

She’s tiny, sweet, & a little bit mischievous (sound familiar?).

But what she really taught me was this: sometimes being soft & fluffy doesn’t get the job done.

BUSINESS TOOLS & REAL-LIFE LESSONS

The Visionary Trap: Avoiding Tough Conversations

As a Visionary, you’re often the big-picture dreamer – full of ideas, possibilities, & optimism. But when it comes to making difficult decisions about people? That’s when things get tricky.

  • You’ve got someone who’s been with the business forever. They’re loyal, maybe even part of the ‘furniture’.
  • You know they’re not performing. Either they’re in the wrong seat, or they’re not a fit at all.
  • The rest of the Leadership Team is pulling their hair out. It’s painfully obvious to everyone else that something needs to change.
  • But you can’t let them go. They’re nice. They’ve been through the highs & lows with you.

So you let it slide. You tell yourself it’s not that bad. Maybe they’ll improve. Maybe you’ll just wait for a magical day when it feels less hard.

Spoiler alert: that day never comes.

The Cost of Avoiding Action

Here’s the uncomfortable truth: when you avoid making the tough calls, you’re not helping anyone.

  • Your business suffers. One wrong person can hold back an entire team.
  • Your team gets frustrated. They start to question your leadership. Why aren’t you addressing the obvious issue?
  • The person in question suffers too. Keeping someone in the wrong seat isn’t kind – it’s cruel. They’re likely feeling unfulfilled, out of their depth, or both.

Enter: The People Analyser

When in doubt, grab your People Analyser. This simple EOS tool helps you evaluate people against your Core Values & whether they ‘Get It, Want It, & have the Capacity to do it (GWC).’

Ask yourself:

  1. Core Values: Are they living & breathing your company’s values?
  2. GWC: Do they Get their role, Want their role, & have the Capacity to do it?

If the answer is no, then you’ve got your answer.

Stop Being Soft & Fluffy

Here’s the thing – being a ‘pussy’ about this decision doesn’t make you a better leader.

Being nice doesn’t mean avoiding the truth.

True kindness is having the courage to address the issue for the good of the business, the team, & the individual.

When you let go of the wrong person or move someone into the right seat, you create space for growth, accountability, & a healthier team.

Your Team Deserves Better

Your team is looking to you. They want a leader who does what’s best for the greater good – even when it’s hard.

So, Visionaries, don’t let that soft spot hold you back.

Rip off the band-aid. Use the People Analyser. Have the conversation.

You’ll feel better, your team will breathe a sigh of relief, & you’ll be doing the right thing for everyone involved.

Remember: you’re not running a kitten rescue – you’re running a business. Be brave. Lead boldly.

And stop being a pussy!

Need help with the People Analyser or tackling these tough conversations? Let’s chat – I’ll bring the kitten stories, you bring your vision. 🚀

LINKS TO USEFUL STUFF

This section gives you quick access to 9 links - to articles, blogs, podcasts & stuff that will help you to create a better business & lead a better life.

Better Business Articles

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Uncommon Courage

Cultivate uncommon courage to enhance your leadership.

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Live With It, End It, or Change It

Embrace change with courage to drive business success.

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Make Tough Conversations Easier

Initiate tough conversations to build a stronger company.

Podcasts to Listen to

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Family, Legacy, and Business

Build your family bonds to secure your business legacy.

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The Black Sheep

Address your family slackers head-on for growth.

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Breaking Barriers

Break conventional business barriers to achieve success.

Better Life Articles

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What To Do When You Feel Afraid

Overcome fear with actionable strategies for wellness.

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How to Manage Anxiety and Fear

Learn techniques to overcome anxiety and embrace courage.

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How to Face Your Fears Head-On

Face fears healthily to build resilience and confidence.

FIND OF THE WEEK

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We are here to help you live a better life by creating a better business. We are real-life business owners with years of experience & a strong desire to make a huge difference to the lives of entrepreneurs.

If anything here resonates with you or you would like our help, then please get in contact. Just reply to this newsletter & let us know who you would like to speak to…. Or visit our webpage & contact any of our team from their own pages.

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NEED HELP?

​If you’d like to learn more about any of these tools or would like to find out how I can help you achieve a better life through creating a better business, then book a free Discovery Call with me.

We’ll talk about what you want to get from your business & your life & come up with a plan to do that!

Debra Chantry-Taylor

Certified EOS Implementer | Accredited Family Business Advisor | Entrepreneurial Leadership & Business Coach | Speaker & Workshop Facilitator