Better Business, Better Life – Issue 188

 

I’m in Perth this week for client sessions, with a deliberate bit of space built in before they started. Not sightseeing. Adventures. Quad biking in the desert. Sunset at the Pinnacles. Long beach walks. Vineyards, breweries & distilleries.

That was intentional. One of my commitments this year is to stop rushing through places without actually enjoying them. Perspective comes from space, not speed.

What hasn’t changed, no matter where I work, is this. Founders will travel, plan, analyse, restructure & quietly hope time will deal with the things they’re avoiding.

It won’t. It just makes the conversation heavier when it finally arrives.

BUSINESS TOOLS & REAL-LIFE LESSONS

Putting the Business First Without Losing Your Humanity

Let’s talk about the inconvenient truth nearly every founder prefers to avoid.

People issues do not fix themselves.

Avoidance protects feelings in the short term & destroys businesses in the long term.

When I met Justine, she avoided hard conversations like the plague. She’s warm, kind & genuinely cares about people. That makes her wonderful to work with, but it also created blind spots.

She admitted, “I put my head in the sand. Emotion came before what the business needed.”

Her loyalty meant she tolerated behaviours she shouldn’t have. She talked herself into believing some people were “doing their best” when actually they were holding the business back.

The Tool That Changed How She Saw Everything

The People Analyser.

It forced her to stop measuring people on feelings & start measuring them on values & GWC.

Do they Get it?

Do they Want it?

Do they have the Capacity to do it?

No politics.

No excuses.

No defending someone because they’ve “been here forever”.

When we used it to decide who would move from Your Virtual Assistant into The Lever, the results surprised her.

People she assumed were right for the future weren’t.

People she overlooked were exactly the right fit.

She said it herself, “You can’t lie with the People Analyser.”

How This Links to the Harvard 3 Circle Model

Justine’s tension sat in the intersection of People (family feeling) & Business (performance).

It’s the most emotional circle.

When the family-feel part of the business takes over, you end up protecting people instead of stewarding the business.

When you swing too far the other way, you become cold & transactional.

The sweet spot is accountability with empathy.

Values with clarity. Kindness with courage.

Justine learned to operate there.

The Emotional Resistance Most Founders Have

Here’s the bit founders rarely admit:

  • They know who is underperforming
  • They know which behaviours don’t align
  • They know who is in the wrong seat
  • They know which hire they regret
  • They know who is draining their energy
  • They know which team members they avoid talking to

What they don’t know is how to deal with it without feeling like the villain.

That’s where tools help. They shift the conversation from emotion to facts.

What You Can Do Next

If avoiding a tough conversation is weighing you down, try this:

  • Do a People Analyser today
    Don’t overthink it. First answers are usually the most honest.
  • Look for the patterns
    Are you overlooking poor performance because the person is “nice”?Are you tolerating misaligned values because the person is loyal?
  • Decide on one conversation you need to have in the next 7 days
    Just one.
  • Use the GWC test
    If someone doesn’t Get it, Want it or have the Capacity, you can’t wish your way out of that problem.
  • Remember, you’re protecting the business, not punishing a person
    Good people thrive with clarity.
    Poor fit people leave or improve.

Justine’s team is stronger now because she stepped into discomfort instead of burying it.

And she’ll tell you her only regret is not doing it earlier.

LINKS TO USEFUL STUFF

This section gives you quick access to 3 links - to articles, blogs, podcasts & stuff that will help you to create a better business & lead a better life.

Better Business and Life Resources

Article

business action

Why Family Businesses Are Choosing EOS

Strengthen family business growth and harmony using EOS tools.

Podcast

business action

Keeping Family Businesses on Track with EOS

Keep family businesses aligned and accountable with EOS.

Life Stuff

business action

Tips for Traveling with Your Family this Year

Plan meaningful family adventures that create lasting memories.

We are here to help you live a better life by creating a better business. We are real-life business owners with years of experience & a strong desire to make a huge difference to the lives of entrepreneurs.

If anything here resonates with you or you would like our help, then please get in contact. Just reply to this newsletter & let us know who you would like to speak to…. Or visit our webpage & contact any of our team from their own pages.

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NEED HELP?

​If you’d like to learn more about any of these tools or would like to find out how I can help you achieve a better life through creating a better business, then book a free Discovery Call with me.

We’ll talk about what you want to get from your business & your life & come up with a plan to do that!

Debra Chantry-Taylor

Certified EOS Implementer | Accredited Family Business Advisor | Entrepreneurial Leadership & Business Coach | Speaker & Workshop Facilitator